We’ve previously discussed a few tips for finding and keeping the right Sugar Baby for you, but a diligent Sugar Daddy knows that there’s always more to learn and more that you can do to either keep your Sugar Baby or recover from the loss of a SD/SB arrangement. I’ve compiled 5 more tips to keep in mind as you navigate the sugar bowl.
1. Maintain Time and Schedules
Circumstances can change for either of you at a moment’s notice either through good fortune or calamity. However, if you intend to have an LTA, the basic terms of your agreement should be held almost sacrosanct. A major change in the agreement should be approached carefully. In addition, while it is bad form for Sugar Daddy to wait for a Sugar Baby to adjust her schedule for him, exclusively, an understanding Sugar Baby will be prepared to wait or adjust to her rich Sugar Daddy’s schedule. Most successful Sugar Daddies are very busy men with little real free time or flexible schedules that can change due to the needs of the business. It might be inconvenient for her but always, a Sugar Baby is meant to be convenient for you or else find someone more accommodating. If too many changes are a deal breaker for your Sugar Baby then you should have already discussed this when you made your initial arrangement, in case flexibility is something that you require. Of course, if you agreed to give her an allowance or promised her another vacation, you must be able to fulfill them as they are in the mutual agreement. When you keep canceling your dates with your Sugar Baby many of them will get less interested, and they might get another Sugar Daddy. This should be a mutually beneficial arrangement for both of you, or it’s not really an SD/SB arrangement.
2. Keep It Secret; Keep It Safe
It may not be hard to tell if your Sugar Baby is single or not, however, you should be able to tell her or rather explain to her why you want to be in that relationship. Many of us are in marriages and having a Sugar Baby is considered cheating, thus harsh consequences might befall your relationships. Consequently, it is not a must for your better half to find out, and that’s why it’s important to tell the Sugar Baby to keep it on the down low. As we all know, most of the ladies love social media, and this might create a big problem if your spouse finds out. Therefore, it is important for your safety to tell your mistress not to post certain photos like when you’re on the vacay or in a good restaurant since the relationship should be low key.
3. Think Beyond the Money
As a Sugar Daddy, you have plenty of money, and therefore you have your financial security. A Sugar Baby might be interested in more than the money and many, at times, they may be models or interested in a particular career field. Being the Sugar Daddy most of the time you have contacts that could help her interests in careers or businesses. Sometimes these Sugar Babies might seem to be so into you, until they get to be more successful, and then they tend to leave you. For you to secure them more long term, you might make them be better by sponsoring or nurturing what they are gifted in, frequently, they will feel grateful, and they will always be with you. However, you shouldn’t forget to make this under an agreement as most of the time when they will leave, you might encounter a loss if you’ve invested in a business start up. Being cautious and being sure about what you want when having a Sugar Baby is so paramount.
4. Be Specific in Your Expectations
Having a realistic plan as a Sugar Daddy could make you have a more successful long-lasting relationship. For example, if you are a rich Sugar Daddy who only needs a young Sugar Baby to spoil or someone to become a travel company or buddy, you should make these clear to her. Sometimes when you are in an SB/SD relationship, you tend to get that a Sugar Baby might involve more of her feelings than you really want, and this may lead to bringing the relationship to an end. When you are getting into an agreement with her, you should be clear on the roles that you want her to play and this may make the relationship last much longer.
5. Be Prepared for the Worst
No matter how well an SD/SB relationship might seem to be going, it could end at any time for any number of reasons. Maybe the Sugar Baby might discover about your undisclosed marriage that is if you never told them about it earlier or when the Sugar Baby begins to get interested in someone who is better than you, that is they offer more than what you do, obviously they will leave to greener pastures. These are some of the few factors that can make you lose a potential Sugar Baby. In addition to that, you may have encountered a financial problem which might not be over soon, and this could make the Sugar Baby relationship end. It’s a mutually beneficial relationship and losing the pretty lady could be instantaneous. As a Sugar Daddy, you should ensure that your game is always on top of things, and if you have not informed the Sugar Baby about how things are you might end up losing one.
6. Informing the Sugar Baby their Position
When you are engaging in a Sugar Baby relationship, you should be sure to state what you are looking for and making the Sugar Baby know the exact position they play in your life. It’s normal for them to develop feelings on the way, but making them remember their position will enhance the relationship. Although you take care of them, there are some other roles that will be difficult for you as SD since it was not part of the relationship and should not be expected, if it’s not part of the arrangement, such as a marriage or having children.
By being smart, prudent, and sensible, you can easily maintain a mutually beneficial arrangement long term. Or if you’re more inclined, move from one STA to another. Keep checking the blog for more tips, advice, and information to help you explore the sugar bowl safely and successfully.