Everything in life comes with pros and cons. The same goes, of course, for being with many Sugar Babies. Having more than one babe, seems, at the first sight, as a less than ideal situation. But, in a way, you can be able to see the other side of life. Being their source of attention, you can be able to engage in other different activities aside from being with them.
You need to ensure that you are the front and center, being the alpha that is, if you want to stay one step ahead of the game. You should find ways to stand out as a wealthy Sugar Daddy with your young Sugar Baby. Once you learn how to do this, you can achieve being the One instead of being one of many. Here are some tips that might help you achieving this goal:
Personality
A Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationship is a give-and-take type of relationship. You have to monitor and evaluate yourself in order to ensure that you are being a good communicator. You want to be a good listener, in addition, to being a fine storyteller. Maybe you’ve heard before of the “80/20 rule”. You might want to follow this rule, since most people enjoy being the center of attention. This means that you talk just 20 percent of the time, while you allow your Sugar Baby to talk 80 percent of the time. By learning to turn the conversation back to her frequently, but naturally, you’ll show that you are interested in what she has to say.
Many men enjoy captivating their audience. However, try to stay positive, in case you feel that your Sugar Baby truly wants to hear your thoughts. Listening to a Sugar Daddy complaining about societal ills and daily stresses can be a real turn off. Compared to your counterparts, being upbeat and charming can give you an advantage. When you do talk, make sure that what you have to say has substance to it and that you aren’t speaking just to fill the silence.
Do not worry about finding conversation topics. Just having a vague knowledge of human interest stories and world events can usually, provide you a good start. It may also be useful to share some common interests. The relationship can strengthen when you are bonding over mutual fascinations.
Looks
They say the first impression is relevant, however as a Sugar Daddy you have to come out and be the unique guy that the Sugar Babe has been looking for. Classy, simple, but sophisticated may help you attract the mind of the Sugar Baby. They might change their opinion of you, especially if they thought you are contrary to what they were expecting. If you decide to dress casually, have a great taste in casual code, that can make you out do your competitors. Women love guys with a good taste of fashion as it could be the only thing that could ever make her consider you to be hers. Being unique from the norm can help you boost your point of being the perfect Sugar Daddy.
Dates
Before getting all routine and boring, there are only so many dates that a Sugar Baby can go on. Keeping this in mind, it seems to be wise making these dates memorable. It is smart to take a break from the usual dinner and dancing or cocktails and dinner date stereotypes, if you want to introduce some variety and avoid falling into a routine. Give your Sugar Baby a memorable experience when going on a date. For instance, try making her dinner or surprise her with a date that she had always really loved. Concentrating on what your lady likes will make her yearn to be with you most of the time. A good Sugar Daddy should think about her interests and research ways to incorporate them into your dates. If she likes music, perhaps, you could find a jazz cafe, or if she’s into exotic food maybe take her to an authentic and exclusive sushi restaurant.
Communication
How often you communicate with each other is a question that is up to you and your pretty Sugar Baby. Maybe your Sugar Baby prefers daily communication. Or maybe she is the type who believes absence makes the heart grow fonder. No matter her style, it is essential that the way you communicate with her stands out. Most young Sugar Babies love to feel that they are loved or they are significant in your life. Making your Sugar Baby the most special one compared to the rest is important. Whenever you are talking to her, you should know how to charm her, making her shine and outstand will make them feel good. When you talking to her you should be able to note these tiny details, and these will make them feel that they are special. When you strike up a conversation be it over the phone or texts you should be able to ask certain questions like ‘are you okay?’ ‘is there anything you need?’ this simply makes them feel like a darling.
When you are communicating with your new Sugar Baby you should be honest with her. Lying to them might cause a feud and things might get out of hand. Telling the truth simply gives the lady a reassurance that everything is okay, or they will be okay. Being open will help reduce the number of problems that are in the relationship and show that there is transparency between the two of you.
Set yourself apart by sending over an email with a new article or podcast that may interest your Sugar Baby. You may, also, try a classic handwritten letter. Whether it is a simple greeting card or a “thank you” note, this will certainly be most appreciated. By choosing to use something that is more unconventional by today’s standards, you’ll set yourself apart from the others. In addition, by sending a physical card or letter, you give her something to hold onto and see, maybe on her desk, and not just another email that gets deleted or mixed in with a plethora of other business and personal minutia. An old, old trick is to spray the pages with your cologne or aftershave to invoke a sense memory in her mind.
