On your first date with your new Sugar Baby, both of you will surely want to bring out your A game in almost everything. From your looks, manners to how even you handle your partner in your first date, there are many factors to stress over. However, the most crucial factor to always consider first more than your looks, attire, cologne, or aftershave is your SAFETY! We all want our first dates to be memorable, enjoyable and most of all to be safe. To ensure your first sugar date doesn’t come with unpleasant surprises, you need to consider the following factors so as to be prepared for anything on your first date. Many are the times we focus on Sugar Babies’ safety only and somehow ignore that Sugar Daddies can, also, be victims to the dangers of the first date with their new partners. Everyone will take risks at some point in their life if they want something badly. However, when it comes to dating, especially online dating you should never at any point take risks that may put you in physical danger. Follow these rules of thumb when you are getting ready for the first date with your new POT SB.
First Contact Impression is Crucial
Prior to your first date, it’s always a good idea to get your POT SB to do a video chat or send you their pictures. You can offer a monetary incentive for her to provide her photos to you, and you should provide at least half the money up front. This is common in most online business transactions, especially freelance works, so this should be acceptable. If your POT starts to hesitate at this idea, well, that should be a red flag that she is a fake or might be trying to scam you or set up a trap for you. If you suspect the releasing of her pics is taking too long or she’s being hesitant, save yourself the trouble, cancel all your arrangement. You’re probably being played. Not only will you decrease your chances of being hurt or being put in an unsafe situation, but you’ll have saved your time from being wasted by a fake.
Keep Your Loved Ones in the Loop
Always let one of your family, friends, or maybe a secretary or personal assistant, who is okay with your dating life or at least neutral about it, know when you’re going out on a date. Give all the proper information on where you will be going exactly, who you’ll be seeing/going with (including their name and phone number) and when you will be back home. If anything changes about your date in the course of the evening, let them know. Even though it may sound a little overboard, if no one knows your whereabouts with a total stranger, they won’t even know they need to get worried, if something should go wrong.
Have Separate Transportation
Dating experts suggest that getting your own transportation when meeting up with someone you don’t know very well it’s a life-saving idea. This way she doesn’t know where your home is before you’re sure that she’s not a threat. In addition, should you not click, there’s no awkward car ride together to drop her off.
Another option is to take an Uber or Lyft, so that you vehicle and license plate number can’t be used to track down any of your personal information that you might not be ready to share or that might be used against you in some sort of scam.
Meet in a Safe Environment
Netflix and chill is a fun idea, but you should never ever invite someone you hardly know over to your house or go over to theirs. Your first date with a Sugar Baby shouldn’t take place in private places, such as a hotel room or their residence and especially not your place. Nor should they suggest to meet somewhere secluded even if it’s public, such as a park at night or even a questionable neighborhood or an unusual part of town.
You’ll want to meet somewhere public and well lit. A familiar coffee shop or restaurant are good choices. A popular public park is not a bad choice, but timing is important, too. You should meet at a time when there are a lot of other people present. Not only does this minimize the chances of you being put in an unsafe situation as a rich SD, but other people in the meeting place may remember you being in that location, in the event something does happen to you.
Don’t Leave Your Food or Drink Unattended
Today we have dangerous drugs like GHB (gamma hydroxybutyrate) and roofies (Rohypnol), which probably you’ve heard of by now. Most are odorless, colorless date rape drugs that can make you disoriented or unconscious. In such a state, you’ll be the most vulnerable person, and you won’t be able to do anything about it. We don’t want to believe that a Sugar Baby we’re on a date with will slip us any drugs, but it does happen. Don’t accept any edible present or even drinks from your SB unless you’ve opened it yourself or watched it being made by a bartender.
Limit Your Alcohol Consumption
While we’re on the topic of foods and drinks on your first date with your POT SB, it’s, also, not a good idea to drink too much alcohol on a first date. Alcohol, as we know, normally lowers people’s’ inhibitions and while that can help you with any nerves you might be having, it will, also, make it easier for a potential predator to lure you into leaving a public place or making other questionable choices. Aside from the dangers of lowered inhibitions, showing yourself as a drunkard will not leave a good impression with a young Sugar Baby.
It is not a bad thing for any healthy, older Sugar Daddy to have a sexual relationship with a new Sugar Baby, however, you must be careful with your partner in terms of knowing her health status, if she’s infected with any form of STDs or not. While sex might be high on your list of perks in having a hot young Sugar Baby, it’s not wise to jump into it until you’ve fully vetted her and are sure she’s not only disease free but not trying to scam you as an escort or prostitute or any other scheme such as blackmail.